April 19, 2024

Bucks Blog: Can the Rich and Powerful Redefine Life for All of Us?

My Saturday Shortcuts column on a movement to redefine what a successful life means drew some enthusiastic responses from readers, and a few that were angry.

The column focused largely on a conference called “The Third Metric,” hosted by Arianna Huffington and Mika Brzezinski this month, that was titled “Redefining Success Beyond Wealth Power.”

It’s clear that many people have been thinking about the issue deeply. A number of readers agreed with the premise that it is high time to find a better way to define success than working nonstop and making lots of money.

“People like you and Arianna Huffington, who have a platform to get out this message, give me hope that our culture can reinvent itself and start to celebrate more than just monetary success. Our collective health and well-being depend on it!” e-mailed Paige Guthrie Hodges, who has written and blogged about simple living.

Another reader, Alan Mandel, wrote that “I frequently find myself struggling to resolve inner conflicts about success. On one hand, after 50+ years I have fully internalized the false equivalencies between success and assets such as money, fame and power. These are pervasive messages drummed into the American psyche from birth, and which permeate the media on any given day. On the other hand,.it shouldn’t be that way.”

Others felt the message was somewhat difficult to swallow coming from the already wealthy and successful.

“It strikes me as humorous that Ms. Huffington, who makes a fortune redistributing journalism for which the writers get no pay, sees the future as putting rest areas in a workplace,” e-mailed Monika Gutman, referring to the nap rooms that Ms. Huffington has installed at The Huffington Post.

And a reader who prefers to remain anonymous because he is job-hunting wrote that while he is a fan and reader of The Huffington Post, the participants in events like the Third Metric “are rich, successful, powerful, all the things they now say should no longer be the yardsticks for success — it’s called closing the door behind you once you’re in the club.”

A number of readers said that any discussion of reanalyzing success had to include a discussion about a new labor movement.

As Bonnie Connelly e-mailed: “Teaching provided me with the opportunity for an engaging, worthwhile profession and the time for a filling home life. This was in large part due to the union that worked to assure good working conditions, a fair salary and reasonable hours. With these working conditions home life was manageable and rewarding. The destruction of unions is in large part the cause of the frustration many experience at work; this frustration, of course, impacts home life.”

And on a more philosophical level, quite a few said it was time to stop confusing achievement of success with finding happiness. A reader, Marv Silverman, said a two-liner changed his life.

The quotation, attributed to the comedian Dave Gardner, is: “Success is getting what you want. Happiness is wanting what you get.”

Article source: http://bucks.blogs.nytimes.com/2013/06/17/can-the-rich-and-powerful-redefine-life-for-all-of-us/?partner=rss&emc=rss

You’re the Boss Blog: 10 Things Job Applicants Should Know

Thinking Entrepreneur

An owner’s dispatches from the front lines.

While there clearly are not enough jobs to go around, some people are getting hired. Every day, every hour, thousands of people are selected from thousands more who are ready, willing and able to work. The question is, why is it that some people get hired and some don’t?

I have an unusual perspective on this. I read several résumés a week. My human resources person reads hundreds. There are some obvious answers like education, connections, experience and even enthusiasm. But there is another reason that may be just as significant: bad résumé and interview skills, especially for applicants right out of school or someone who hasn’t interviewed in a long time. I can’t tell you how many times we have interviewed a recent college graduate who would surely get an F in Job Hunting 101.

As a parent of a soon-to-graduate student (last one, yippee!), I am thinking about the students and their parents as they enter the real world. I can easily imagine what these grads tell their parents when they can’t find a job: “No one is hiring!” “You don’t understand how competitive it is out there!” “I’m thinking of going to grad school!”

Poor dad. Poor mom. And I do mean poor. With the cost of college, parents can be forgiven for expecting their grads to be able to land a job. There’s no question that this has been as tough an economy as we’ve had in a long time, but again, even in the worst economy, some people do land jobs. Here’s my top 10 list of what you can do to improve your odds.

  1. Review the résumé. Review it again. Have a grown-up review it. Would it surprise you to learn that a third of the résumés we get have misspellings? I just looked at one that listed the person’s address as Chicago, Ohio. She was from Ohio.  An honest mistake? Sure. But it shows a lack of attention to detail, and it was the first of five careless mistakes. This was for a job that requires communicating with customers and putting proposals together. I don’t understand. Have these college graduates really not heard of spell check?  If you have a pretty good idea that you can’t spell, why wouldn’t you have someone else look it over? Or do bad spellers only hang out with other bad spellers?
  2. Show up on time for the interview. That means plan on getting there early. Look around. Look friendly.
  3. Dress appropriately. O.K. This one is going to require some judgment. Don’t wear jeans (unless you’re applying at the Gap). Don’t look like you are on the way to the beach unless you are applying for a lifeguard job. You get the idea.
  4. Know something about the company. Or, better yet, know a lot about the company. With the advent of the Internet and Web sites, many companies expect you to be familiar with what it is they do. They also expect that you will speak convincingly about why you would love to work at their company. You can do it.
  5. Take internships seriously. It isn’t easy to find an internship. Many companies use them to develop a pool for prospective employees. We hired a paid intern to work in our gallery. She had a degree in art, was very outgoing and seemed to have an ability to sell. But she kept coming in late, even though she lived five minutes away. After several conversations, she still kept coming in late. We rode out the internship and wished her well. We hired someone else.  There are very few art jobs out there. My new employee is very thankful. She has never been late.
  6. Don’t just look for job postings. Target companies that you would like to work for and send them a résumé. Follow up. Send one to the H.R. person, the manager, the president. Include a beautifully written cover letter. Follow up. If you do this enough, you will find someone who just happens to be thinking about placing a job ad, and calling you may make this person’s life a little easier. Timing is everything, although persistence is important, too. Talk to friends and relatives about companies they know.
  7. Think about things you have done in school, in a previous job, in a volunteer position that speak to your commitment, your ability to solve problems, your ability to deal with difficult customer situations, your ability to get a job done. Work it into your résumé and your interview responses.
  8. Ask questions, especially when interviewers ask if you have any questions. If you don’t, you look unengaged, afraid or uninterested. And make them good questions about what you’ll be doing on the job. Don’t ask how much vacation time you get. The primary goal of the questions you ask is to get the job, not to decide if you want the job.
  9. Think before you speak. This is a skill that most of us could improve. During one interview, I asked a young woman why a reference she had listed hadn’t had much to say about her. She immediately blurted out, “I’m difficult to work with!” Of course, I hired her immediately, because everyone wants to work with difficult people! (No, actually, I didn’t.)
  10. Stay in touch. If you get to be a finalist for a position but don’t get it, suck it up. Don’t take it personally. The company clearly liked you, but you were edged out. It is not easy to pick between finalists, and many times it is very close. Ask if you can stay in touch. If you get an enthusiastic yes, be sure to do so. There is a good chance that the new hire won’t work out or that another position will open up. You are close!
  11. Bonus! I can’t tell you how many times I have seen people burn bridges for no reason. That doesn’t necessarily mean telling off your boss on the way out. It is usually more subtle, like not giving notice, making disparaging remarks about the company to co-workers (who can’t wait to tell the boss) or exhibiting an I-don’t-care-anymore attitude. Be smart: if you give notice and the company chooses to keep you around, stay on your best behavior. Say good-bye to everyone. It will speak well of you, and it will be remembered. It can be the difference between getting a lukewarm reference or an enthusiastic one. That could easily make the difference in getting your next job.

It is more competitive than ever. Rise to the challenge. This may not help the unemployment rate, but it could  help you. In Real World 101, that is the goal.

Jay Goltz owns five small businesses in Chicago.

Article source: http://feeds.nytimes.com/click.phdo?i=50a28b3615fa31c19669eaec58b70d25